From Self-Hate to Self-Love: How I Rebuilt My Relationship With Myself
- thebrandedbabemo
- Sep 11
- 2 min read

Hey love,
This one’s personal.
There was a time when I looked in the mirror and felt nothing but criticism.
I hated my reflection. I questioned my worth. I picked apart every part of who I was, inside and out.
I didn’t trust myself. I didn’t speak kindly to myself. I didn’t know how to love myself.
But I do now.
And if you’re in a season where self-love feels out of reach, I want you to know that you’re not alone… and it doesn’t have to stay this way.
The Truth About Self-Hate
Self-hate doesn’t always look dramatic.
Sometimes it looks like:
Dismissing compliments
Putting yourself last
Apologizing for existing
Staying silent when your soul wants to scream
Sabotaging anything good that tries to come your way
We internalize messages, about not being enough, not being worthy, not being lovable, and then replay them over and over in our own minds.
But here’s the truth:
You were never the problem. The story was.
✨ Introducing: The Self-Love Journey Workbook
This isn’t your typical “just love yourself” advice.
This is a guided, healing journey that takes you step by step into a deeper, more compassionate relationship with you.
It’s for the woman who’s ready to rewrite the narrative.
To speak to herself like someone she loves.
To come home to her own heart.
Inside this workbook, you’ll:
✔ Break free from negative self-talk and perfectionism
✔ Heal your inner critic with compassion and truth
✔ Practice mirror work, affirmations, and emotional self-care
✔ Rebuild trust and connection with your body, mind, and spirit
✔ Embody the woman who knows she is lovable, worthy, and enough
Because loving yourself isn’t selfish.
It’s sacred. And it changes everything.
You Are Worth Loving, Right Now
You don’t have to be “better,” “prettier,” “more successful,” or “healed” to be worthy of love.
You are enough today.
Exactly as you are.
If you’re ready to begin that journey, the Self-Love Journey Workbook is here to guide you, every step of the way.
Click down below to download your Self-Love Journey Workbook and start learning to love yourself today!




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